The Good Lord Strikes again!

**To my friend who I hurt, rock on superstar

So, about 6 months ago my friend stopped talking to me. At the time I didn’t know why he stopped, he just stopped. Let me tell you why, I offended him! Could you believe that? This is my good friend here! The one that I used to hang out with all the time and write songs with. My music friend who just knows so much! He told me just yesterday that I had offended him! I could not believe what I was hearing. However, when he explained to me what I had said and how I said it, it made sense as to why that would offend someone. However, the good Lord moved my friend into missing me and he missed me enough to call me again and start hanging out with me again. I thank God for this friend, he is such a blessing in my life and I could not believe that I had just offended him. I feel like there are some other aspects as to why I offended him and I wish that he would tell me, but who knows maybe he will one day. Anyways let me tell you what I said, what I meant, and how God was involved the whole time.

Critique

            So, my friend and I were jamming out one day and I kept feeling as if though he was looking for critique on his musicality. He did not ask for it, however, the questions felt like they were leading me to say something like that. So I told him a few things, however, I didn’t pay attentions as to what I was saying and how I was saying it. I had an attitude those days and I showed it off to my friend, but I didn’t know that it was really bad. Apparently the way that I was saying things felt like I was a bully.

What I wanted to say

            I think my friend’s music is pure fire. I would not say that if it wasn’t true. It’s so professional the music side of things, however, there are some things that he needs to work on. Solid work though, good work.

            That’s what I wanted to tell him. Apparently I had hurt him so much, that he went into a depression and he quit music for a while! I am so thankful to God that it did not lead to anything bad. God himself was with my friend throughout the times that I had hurt him.

Moving on

            I have been learning the same lesson for all of my life, be careful what you say and how you say it. But it feels like I’m just never done learning it. I can’t promise my friend that I’ll be perfect and not hurt him for the rest of my life, but I hope that my friend will have the confidence and patience that it takes to be my friend. I don’t ever look to hurt him or anyone, and if I do, it’s an accident. I hope that we can get through this and be even stronger bros in the end.

How God was involved

            God comforted my friend even though I had hurt him. God comforted my friend enough to get him to call me back again. God helped him out of his depression, God didn’t let my friend spiral out of control. God was always there for him and was guiding him more towards his destiny. I could not thank God enough.             Anyways that’s it for this blog post. I hope that I have been an encouragement and inspiration to you guys. Please pray, read your bible, go to church, and love God above all else. Like, share, comment, and subscribe and I will see you all next time. German Gonzalez, signing out!