Advice for teens on how to handle bullies

Bullies hurt, they sometimes mean to hurt and sometimes they don’t mean to hurt. I actually live in Virginia and I remember back when the Virginia Tech Shooting happened.

            A lot of people were criticizing bullies and just what it does to the world when you bully someone.

            It was funny because I was getting bullied a lot in elementary school at the time and I couldn’t help but to think to myself that going out in a bang was a great idea.

            I AM NOT saying that, that is a good idea. As a matter of fact, just to be clear, DO NOT go out and shoot your bullies because that’s not the way to do it.

            I remember those were dark days in my life. I always thought about suicide and how I could get revenge on my bullies, it was horrible.

            One day, I showed up to school and I dressed up in a really nice suit and tie because it was my elementary school graduation.

            I dressed up so nice that day and everyone was shocked at how I was dressed. No one said anything that day. And all I could remember was thinking, I’m free, I don’t have to see them again, because I was moving to a different city.

Let me share with you some  advice on how to deal with bullies

Let God be the one to take care of your bullies for you.

            Know this, that vengeance is the Lords. Do not avenge yourselves, vengeance is the Lords.

            Honestly, I have seen God take care of my enemies for me. They have been marvelous ways that the Lord has taken care of my enemies.

            I had one enemy, who was a bully, and he ended up asking me for a job.

            However, I couldn’t hire him because he was a drug addict. He became a drug addict and I couldn’t hire him.

            Therefore, when I told my boss about him, he said to me, did he ever make fun of you? And I said, “yeah he did.” And he said, “well then we won’t hire him.”

            And I remember that, that felt so good to have that on me. I couldn’t hire him and he wouldn’t get the job that I had because now, I was the one who was living life.

            I know that it is a long game waiting on the Lord, however, it will be so worth it.

            I’m not going to say to you of all the justice that happened to the bullies, but God is the one who helped me and who avenged me.

            Now look at me, I HAVE A BLOG THAT’S ON THE VERGE OF BLOWING UP!!

            This blog is so close right now to making the numbers that I want and giving me the things that I want.

            My hard work is starting to pay off and you know what? I wouldn’t have the things that I have or will have if I killed myself.

            I have great music that I make, I have skills that many people wish that they would have. I am the one who everyone wants to be right now.

            What can those bullies say about me now? They can’t say that I’m poor because they’re the ones that are poor. They can’t tell me I suck, because I rock. They can’t tell me I’ll never get any girls, because I’m the one who every girl wants to be with.

            I’m not trying to sound cocky, but that is what happens when you wait on God to answer your nights of desperation. There is something for you if you wait on God, just wait on him.

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            I hear you guys when you say that it hurts what the bullies are doing. Trust me I know it hurts. However, there is something in the bible and I remember it whenever I think about this subject. It states that humility must be present in your life one way or another. And it’s going to happen in one of two ways. Either, you’re going to be humbled first and then you’ll have pride, or you’ll have pride at first and then you’ll be humbled.

            So, all those days that those bullies were bullying me, I just remember to myself the things that are in the bible. I know that the things in the bible are true.

            And I stuck it out and I waited it out and I had faith in God all throughout my days and sure enough, now my God is giving me what I deserve because I went through the steps that God wanted.

            And what are those bullies going through right now? Well they were prideful at first and now it’s time for the humility.

            Thank you all for listening in on this blog post. I hope that I have been an inspiration and a hope to you all. Please pray, read your bible, go to church, and love God above all else. Like, comment, share, subscribe, and I will see you all next time. German Gonzalez, signing out!