A Christians 2 Cents on Marriage

Hey guys! So recently I’ve been a little busy. 

Before we get into this blog post, let’s have our moment of silence. 

At this time, I would like all of us to take a moment of silence and pray to God to help us to become the people that he wants us to become. Take a minimum of 5  minutes and pray for these things. 

Now back to the show

Diary Entry:

So these past few days, I’ve actually been getting ready for a wedding that happened yesterday. 

The day before, I couldn’t write in the blog because I was just too busy with getting a suit for the wedding and shoes and all the clothing required of it. 

It was actually a really great wedding. My friend was really intimate with who he wanted at his wisdom so not too many people were invited, my cousins wedding was the same way. 

But I decided to talk about this wedding to share with you all the wisdom that I’ve learned from being a Christian. 

I want to share with you all what the bible says about marriage. How a husband should treat his wife and how a wife should treat her husband. 

There are ways that each one should treat each other.

So let’s talk about this. 

The wisdom

So the primary thing that we need to understand about a marriage is that it needs God in between it all. 

Now I say this not as marriage advice because I’ve never been married. I’m not saying  this as counselor advice. 

It’s just that the bits of wisdom that I’m about to share are things that will help your marriage because it will keep your marriage from the evils of this world. 

So, the first thing that your marriage needs is God. 

You need to be reading the bible on a consistent basis in order for your marriage to succeed. 

There is more wisdom in the bible than what all of the streets could ever give you. 

So like, don’t be scared to search something up on the bible because it could be considered “old fashioned.” 

The earth was created 6,000 years ago and everyone still uses the earth. 

Bricks were made when there was still one language in the world and people still use bricks to create houses. 

Instruments with strings were around in King David’s days, and actually David was really good at it and people still use stringed instruments today. 

So, just because something is old, doesn’t mean that it’s wrong. As a matter of fact, because it’s old, it could prove to be more helpful. 

So the first thing that we all need is God. We need God to help us to stay faithful to our wives and husbands. 

If we’re not faithful to our wives and husbands then they will definitely divorce us and I’m pretty sure that you don’t want that. 

We also need God in order to do all the work that’s needed to be in a relationship. 

There will be multiple times throughout your life being married that your relationship with your husband and wife is going to be tested or strained. And it’s going to take work to fix it. 

Those honeymoon days are great and all, but ultimately it’s going to take work to stay with someone forever. 

And of course we need God in order to do a few other things too. 

And the reason why I say that we need God in order to do those things is because God gives us the internal strength to do the difficult things in life. 

God gives us the spirit, the hope, the courage, the determination to stick with the people in our lives. 

Trust me, God does give strength to do the impossible. 

What is a Godly way to treat your spouse?

Ultimately, loving God above all else and then loving your spouse as yourself is the way that you’re supposed to treat your spouse. 

But what does that mean?

I mean that it’s important in a relationship like that to be romantic with each other. 

It’s also important to be physical for both people, husband and wife. 

I’m not sure if you fellas know this, but girls like to have sex too. 

I’m not trying to sound perverted or misogynistic or imply anything, but there are sincerely dudes who think that girls don’t like to do those things. 

The bible even talks about this.

1 Corinthians 7 talks about this. You can read it on your own. But when you read it, have in mind that it means it in a loving way because it uses loving language and implications. 

It says that the woman cannot control her body as the man. That’s not meaning that in a marriage a wife has no say in having sex or not, but what that’s saying is that she can’t control her body just as the man can’t in the way that a man wants sex all the time, is the same for a woman. 

I’m not trying to say that I know everything about sex, because I really know next to nothing. 

But I know that much. The bible also says that it’s okay to take breaks from having sex just as long as you don’t starve yourself from having sex.

Because then you’re not being loving to your spouse. Your spouse needs that, just like you do.

Then comes the question

Then I hear the question, “but German, what about all of those people that are ugly?”

What you consider ugly, someone could consider beautiful! Haha! I’ve seen really pretty girls in my days and I honestly didn’t think that they were ugly, but they themselves were judging themselves based off of their own imperfections. 

I remember I one time saw a girl and she was really insecure about her overbite, actually there were a few girls that I knew that were insecure about their overbite. 

And I just told them that they looked good. I didn’t really care if a girl had an overbite or not, it really didn’t matter to me. But they were so insecure about that!

Another girl was so insecure about her teeth, they were white as snow and she brushed them 3 times a day, but they were a little bit crooked. And I started laughing because I said to her, if someone is so concerned about your teeth that they can’t look at anything else, I think you shouldn’t even want that person. 

Now if you’ve seen my picture, just look at that picture and tell yourself if you think I look good or not. 

I have heard everything about me. 

I have heard that I’m ugly, I have heard that I’m gorgeous, I have heard that I’m somewhere in between. 

And I’ve heard from GIRLS that I’m ugly. Alright, some girls really don’t want me. 

I’m not trying to sound like I’m bragging, but me looking the way that I look, some girls have just flat out said that I’m ugly! 

I’ve also been told that I’m beautiful. So like, no matter what, there’s always going to be someone who thinks you’re attractive.

Ultimately to me looks matter a little bit. I mean a girl has to be attractive to you in order for you  to be with her right? 

But I’ll be honest, I’ve said no to girls who were flat out HOT because they were not Christian. 

I’ve broken up with 1 girl because she wasn’t Christian. 

Really it’s needed in my life for a girl to be Christian and I’m not going to stay with a girl just because she’s pretty. 

I’m not even going to ask out a girl just because she’s pretty, I have to know her first and I have to see if she agrees with my Christian beliefs.

Also her personality matters too. I have to marry a girl who is kind and loving and knows God.

I really don’t want to marry a girl who just looks good. 

I want a girl who loves God with all her heart.

Broadcast

I sure hope that I have been an inspiration and a hope to you all. Please remember to pray, read your bible, go to church, and love God above all else. Like, comment, share, subscribe, and I will see you all next time. 

If you want to go to heaven, then believe in Jesus and you will go to heaven. (John 3:16)

Thank you all for listening in on this blog post. 

German Gonzalez, signing out!